Requesting Activity Win
The extension given didn't really change the situation much at all, since I wasn't available yesterday, and I won't be available today either (I can elaborate more on my availability if you wish, i've just said the same things earlier or elsewhere so i don't feel like explaining again).
The crux of the matter is that he rescheduled our game during a scheduled timeframe, missed this same scheduled time by a large margin, and then was never available at a time that worked for me on wednesday. We had scheduled for a time range of 7/8 ish on tuesday, but NightFox said something came up and asked to reschedule the game for 12 am gmt-4 the same day instead. He then missed this time by 2 hours, and then I never found him available at a time that worked for me the next day. I stayed up till 2 that day, and I made a post about our situation in the r1 thread around 1 AM. I did not find the alt he told me online on either main or smogtours, and his smogon showed he was last online around 9 PM, so he definitely missed the time after rescheduling by a large margin. After that it should be his responsibility to manage his schedule so it can fit with mine, but I never found him online whenever I came online, and he did not communicate much about his specific availability either. Considering this and that the game can't be played within the extension deadline, I feel it is fair for me to request an activity win.